Street harassment is something almost every South African woman has faced.
It can happen anywhere, in the city, at a taxi rank, on the beach, even in your own neighbourhood. It makes you feel uncomfortable, angry, or even scared.
But you can learn how to handle it.
You can respond with strength and confidence.This post will show you how.
Let’s start here. If someone harasses you in the street, it is not your fault. It doesn’t matter what you are wearing. It doesn’t matter where you are walking.You have the right to be there.
The harasser is the one doing wrong, not you!
Always trust your instincts.
If something feels wrong, believe it.
If you feel uneasy, leave the area if you can.
Cross the road.
Walk into a shop.
Phone someone.
Rather act early than wait.
How you move can make a big difference.Walk tall.
Head up. Shoulders back. Look around. Be aware of what is happening around you. Make brief eye contact if safe, it shows you are alert.
Sometimes it is safe to speak up.You can say:
“Leave me alone.”
“Stop that.”
“Don’t speak to me like that.” Say it loud and strong.
No need to shout — just clear and firm. If the situation feels too dangerous, rather leave and get help.
Try to keep space between you and the person.
If they move closer, move away. Stay near other people if you can.
Be aware of exits — know where you can go if things get worse.
Sometimes the safest thing is just to walk away. You don’t have to prove anything to the harasser.
Your goal is to stay safe, not to “win.”
If you own a self defense weapon, keep your self defense weapon where you can reach it quickly and make a mental decision to use it to its fullest capacity when required.
Learn how to use everyday items you carry as improvised self defense weapons.
One of the best things you can do? Learn self-defense.Training helps you:
You’ll also feel more confident. That shows and can help stop trouble before it starts.
Street harassment is never okay.You have the right to walk freely.
You have the right to feel safe.
You have the right to stand up for yourself.This Women’s Day, why not do something for yourself? Join a self-defense workshop.
Learn the skills to stay strong and confident — anywhere.
👉 Book your Women’s Day Self-Defense Workshop now! Spots are limited.
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