Living in a Bubble: How Security Estates Create Careless Residents and Easy Targets

  •  09/24/2025 06:38 AM

In South Africa many people believe that moving into a residential estate, wildlife estate or lifestyle estate will keep them safe. They see the high walls, the electric fencing, the guards at the gate, cameras on poles and access control. It all looks very professional. The problem is that these things only create the feeling of safety. They do not make you truly safe.

Micro Decisions That Save Lives

  •  09/23/2025 06:08 AM

When people think about self defense they often imagine a violent attack where they must fight back or run for their lives. The truth is that the most important part of staying safe happens long before the fight or flight stage. It happens in the tiny choices you make every day. I call these micro decisions.

Threat Scan: A Simple Tool You Can Use Every Day to Stay Safe

  •  09/22/2025 05:09 AM

Most people have heard the term situational awareness at some point, especially in safety talks or self defence classes. The problem is that it sounds complicated. Here is a better way.

How to Verbally De-Escalate Conflict: Proven Tips for Calming Angry People

  •  09/19/2025 05:58 AM

Learn how to verbally de-escalate conflict with proven communication techniques, body language tips, and step-by-step strategies to calm angry customers, clients, and coworkers.

Stop Asking “How Do I Escape If He Holds Me Like This?” – Start Asking This Instead

  •  08/31/2025 07:38 AM

“How do I get out if someone grabs me like this?” This question usually comes from women, especially when they worry about being pinned down by a man in a rape situation.

How to Stop Freezing When a Criminal Confronts You

  •  08/25/2025 06:05 AM

Many people wonder how they would react if a criminal suddenly confronted them.

Can a Knife Beat a Gun? The Truth About the 21 Foot Rule

  •  08/21/2025 05:19 AM

When it comes to self defence, many people assume that a firearm gives them an overwhelming advantage against an attacker armed with a knife. Films and television often reinforce this idea: if you have a gun and your attacker has a blade, you win. But reality is not that simple. In fact, research and training in law enforcement circles has shown that a knife wielding attacker can be just as dangerous, if not more so, within certain distances.

How Criminals ‘Interview’ You Without You Knowing — And Why It Could Save Your Life

  •  08/20/2025 06:43 AM

Did you know most criminals test their victims before they strike? In South Africa, attackers often use a subtle “interview” process to decide whether you’re an easy target. By spotting these warning signs and responding the right way, you can shut down their plan before it begins — and dramatically improve your chances of staying safe.

The 5 Most Useless Self-Defense Tools People Falsely Believe Will Keep Them Safe

  •  08/15/2025 05:17 AM

When it comes to personal safety, people often look for shortcuts, a gadget or gizmo they can carry that will “guarantee” their security. Unfortunately, some of the most popular self defense tools on the market look good in advertisements but fail miserably in real world attacks.

How to Build a Safe Room That Could Save Your Family’s Lives

  •  07/05/2025 08:53 AM

A safe room is a part of your house where your entire family can quickly move to during an emergency like a home invasion. Learn how to design your own.

The 1-Hour Self-Defense Method That Actually Works

  •  06/30/2025 09:59 AM

Most people believe self-defense takes years to master, but that’s a dangerous myth. Discover how COBRA Self Defense teaches realistic, effective protection using simple gross motor skills and common sense in just one hour.

Stay Safe on the Go: How to Select the Right Self-Defense Tool for Work and Travel

  •  06/23/2025 10:55 AM

A smart self-defense guide for corporate professionals. How to choose the right personal safety tool. Firearm, pepper spray, taser, or more. What every decision-maker needs to know about legal, practical, and tactical factors.